May 8, 2013

Blog Every Day in May [Day 8]


Day 8, Wednesday: A piece of advice you have for others. Anything at all.

Hmmmm....not sure if I can only give out 1 piece of advice. 

Here are my literal 'two cents'

1] Have Faith
Yes, life is hard. Yes, sometimes it can suck. But if you have faith, you will see a better day and things will work out. Will they work out the way you want, maybe not. But, God is in control and faith is a powerful thing to have.

2] People will make time for you if they want to, if they don't you know they aren't really into you.
Whether it's a guy or a girl, if that person doesn't text you back, call you back or make time for you, THEY AREN'T INTERESTED! Stop wasting your time on the losers and make time for new wonderful people to enter your life. I wasted too many minutes checking my phone for a text that didn't come because I kept making excuses for the girl/guy. I wasn't important enough to them, so EFF them! You can't control how people feel about you, but you can control how you feel about the situation. Sure, your self esteem will take a hit, but trust me, down the road you will feel better. Don't waste your life waiting on other people, it's your life, not theirs.

14 comments:

Nikki said...

Two GREAT pieces of advice! I really like the second one too. So many people -women especially- waste time on others who are not interested in them and its sad and its so so true that if someone wants to be around you they will make the time for you.

Jenn said...

Very good pieces of advice! I wish I had learned and believed the second lesson way earlier in life haha. But, because of number 1, I'm where I am today :)

Jenn said...

Very good pieces of advice! I wish I had learned and believed the second lesson way earlier in life haha. But, because of number 1, I'm where I am today :)

Alana Christine said...

Ah! Such good advice! I almost put something in my post about letting people go if they aren't true friends.

Christina @ The Murrayed Life said...

OH do I love number 2! And wish I could go back in time and slap that bad boy in my face. Even though I think I knew, I just was good at harassing. Maybe not the best way to win someone's heart? ;)

Illegally Blonde said...

Ah yes... great advice. Advice I need to follow now in the dating world. Man its hard out there.

Tori G said...

what great advice! I def. follow both!

Holly said...

Awesome advice! #2 could not be more true. I think once you realize this happiness just comes right along with it.

Christelle said...

Such good advice! Just wish sometimes the heart and brain connected better on these wise words of wisdom..haha! :)

Shanique Roca said...

GREAT ADVICE!

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Shanique Roca said...

GREAT ADVICE!

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from www.bznaturalista.blogspot.com

Aleshea said...

Your advice is spot on. We must always keep the Faith and remember that if they want to be in your life they will make the time for you.

Raeven said...

Such great advice!!! Having faith and being aware of who you surround yourself with are so important.

Raeven said...

Such great advice!!! Having faith and being aware of who you surround yourself with are so important.